Ministry Musings. 1

                                    Around the world and close to home we are facing a long list of challenges. How can we respond?

Social Justice. 2

Social Justice Action Committee’s Focus on Water 2

                                    Taking action on the right to clean, safe water, from the local to the global level

2010 Georgia UU Social Justice Conference. 3

                                    “To Learn and Be Inspired” — this month in Macon, Georgia

Membership Corner 5

                                    The next Path to Membership class is this month

What’s the plan?. 5

                        The Long-Range Planning Committee wants to hear from you

Please make room.. 5

                        As UUMAN grows, we need your help

Notes from the Common Grounds. 5

                        Dish Rinsing 101 — What everyone needs to know

The Sustainability Committee’s Tip of the Month. 7

                        What is triclosan? And why should I care?

A Month of Sundays. 9

Ministry with Children & Youth. 9

                        Starting this month, we are excited to include the complete MCY Monthly Newsletter inside the UUMANTimes

MCY Calendar Highlights. 10

Contact Toniann. 10

Your new MCY Council…... 11

The 6 Components of a Balanced MCY…... 11

Annual Fall Youth Retreat 12

Seeking Youth Advisors. 12

Fall Mountain & District Con Dates. 12

The Inherent Worth and Dignity of Babies. 12

About the UUMANTimes. 14

 

Ministry Musings

Another summer has come and gone, although you wouldn’t know it by the continuing steamy weather. The kids are back to school, the minister is in the pulpit and we have returned to our church and our shared religious life. We return to a world much as it was before the summer began: wars continue to rage, Iraq still burns as our commitment is being scaled back, and Afghanistan heats up. People are suffering globally: floods in Pakistan and China; famine and disease walk the land. Locally, our nation is spiritually at odds with itself; the left does not talk to the right; some religions support that which rends us asunder, rather than heals the wounds of our society. Gay and Lesbian people still do not have the same rights to marry as other citizens do. Instead our society codifies injustice and calls it defense of marriage.

When we legislate away human rights we open the door for it to happen to all our citizens. To paraphrase Rev. Martin Niemöller: when they came for the trade unionists I did nothing, and when they came for the communists I was silent, and when they rounded up the Jews I was not one, so didn’t care, and finally when they came for me there was no one left to save me. Is that to be the fate of America?

 There is meanness in the air, born of fear and intolerance and frankly, racial and cultural prejudice. It manifests itself in the birther movement, the tea party and the immigration debate. Our politicians have become nothing more than nay-saying, self-serving demagogues interested only in getting reelected rather than serving the people they supposedly represent. They disappoint us at every turn and pander to our lowest baser instincts of hatred and fear.

 We have lost our moral compass; people have turned their backs to the pain of their neighbors and the human community. For many,  compassion and love have disappeared—it seems people just don’t care—it is easier to do nothing—to hide from reality—to attack the Other—rather than heal a broken world.

 But, I believe it can be different and we who gather in this beloved community must pick up the shovel and do the heavy lifting of community-building and healing. We must “Stand on the Side of Love"—get arrested if need be, as our UUA president and your former minister Greg did—in the name of justice and compassion. We are called to strive to do the right thing—to protect liberty--to be the voice for reason and love when all about us are losing their heads and succumbing to hatred. It is our obligation as a people of faith to live our values not only in words, but in a deed.

 We can serve the general good if for no other reason than that it is the right thing to do. It is morally responsible for UUs to fight for those who would be trampled, their rights abridged or denied. The history of our faith is bright when it comes to the cause of justice and love. We must become an example of living love to combat hatred and prejudice. I know we can do this because I have looked into your eyes and seen your goodness and compassion. Let us not forget that the struggle for justice is never-ending. Justice must become a beautiful, mighty river, flowing to the sea. We must be willing to jump in and swim, become an integral part of human history, not just observers from the shoreline. Join me in living our faith.

 

 — Reverend Paul

Social Justice Action Committee’s Focus on Water

 

After the ingathering services the UUMAN Social Justice Action Committee (SJAC) will have educational materials available about the organizations and activities that support healthy water sources locally, state-wide, nationally, and internationality. Please drop by our table on September 5 after the service.

 

Among the activities to be highlighted is Roswell’s Rivers Alive River Cleanup on Saturday, September 25. Cleanup is from 8:00am-11:00am at Riverside Park. Join many other volunteers to remove litter and debris from the Chattahoochee River and surrounding areas. Help keep our local water source and the vital habitats it supports clean and healthy! Cookout, games and recognition from elected officials 11:00-12:30. Free and open to the public.

 

The Social Justice Action Committee has chosen the over-arching theme of water for our activities. They will be carried out in conjunction with the UUA matrix of Service, Education, Witnessing, Advocacy/Lobbying, Community Organizing, with the goal of having local, state, national, and world impacts.  The right to water is a basic human right. As the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee notes: “Access to clean, safe drinking water is one of the most fundamental necessities of life. It is therefore a basic human right. Yet too often this basic right is impinged upon or even denied by those in power for their economic advantage. Quite often those most severely affected are the poor and peoples of color. The Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) believes that sources of drinking water should be kept clean and safe, and that water should be available to all regardless of ability to pay.”

 

On July 28, 2010 the United Nations passed a resolution signed by 122 nations (the U. S. abstained) which voiced deep concern that almost 900 million people worldwide do not have access to clean water and a total of more than 2.6 billion people do not have access to basic sanitation. Studies indicate about 1.5 million children under the age of five die each year and 443 million school days are lost because of water- and sanitation-related diseases. In some countries water has been privatized, depriving poor people from safe and available drinking water. The World Bank predicts that by 2025, two-thirds of the world's population will suffer from lack of clean and safe drinking water. For more information on the problems of water privatization, see the report of the Public Citizen "Water Privatization Fiascos: Broken Promises and Social Turmoil" (http://www.citizen.org/documents/privatizationfiascos.pdf) , or the websites of the Sierra Club  (http://www.sierraclub.org/committees/cac/water/), the Center for Public Integrity (http://projects.publicintegrity.org/water/), and the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee (http://www.uusc.org/content/international_human_right_water).

 

To join the UUMAN Social Justice Action Committee contact one of the coordinating members: Kate Hudson, Michelle Liebergesell, Guillermo Kuhl, Marjorie Pomper, and Pat Carter.

 

   Pat Carter

2010 Georgia UU Social Justice Conference

“To Learn and Be Inspired”

 

Saturday, September 11, 2010

9:30-5:00 High Street Church, Macon , GA

 

Join your fellow UUs from around the state who are passionately involved in social justice.  Some would argue that social justice is the foundation of our denomination.  Our work in social justice is an important way that we live out our Unitarian Universalist values in the public arena.

 

Learn from the work of other UU congregations.  Share information about the work your social justice committee or ministry is working on.  Find out what has worked well and not worked as well in the work others have done.

 

Be Inspired.  Sometimes our Social Justice ministries are one of the smallest groups within a congregation.  It can be discouraging to feel as if you are one of the few who “get” the importance of working hard for social change.  Meet others from throughout the state that are involved and mobilized on the same or similar issues.

 

Network.  Brainstorm ideas for working on common projects together.  Discuss how we can empower ourselves through collaborative work.  Dare to put into reality a powerful voice united with other people of faith who share our values.  Through unity we will maximize our strength.

 

Program:

09:30a - 10:00a

Check-In And Refreshments

10:00a - 11:00a

Opening Worship

 

Rev Rhett Baird, High Street UU Church

Keynote Speaker:  Ana Garcia Ashley

Associate Director, Gamaliel Foundation

11:15a - 12:30p

Workshop Sessions (All repeat after lunch)

 

 

 

a. Immigration Reform

b. Congregation Based Community Organizing

c. Racial and Economic Justice

d. The Environment

e. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Issues

12:30p - 01:30p

Lunch

01:45p - 03:00p

Workshop Sessions

03:00p - 03:30p

Afternoon Break

03:30p - 04:45p

Report Back From Workshop Sessions

“Where Do We Go From Here?”

04:45p - 05:00p

Closing/Adjournment

 

For further information, contact: Debra Greenwood, Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Gwinnett, (404) 234-2478,  

 

Register Now:  $25 per person, includes lunch and all snacks.

Deadline to register: September 1, 2010

 

   Pat Carter

We are excited to announce that the next Path to Membership class, which is a required step before membership, is scheduled for Sunday, Sept 19th after service from 12:00-4:30.  Lunch and childcare will be provided.  If you are interested in learning more about what membership at UUMAN means, this is the class for you!  Sign up at the membership table in Fellowship Hall.

 

The next New Member’s Ceremony will be held on Sunday, October 3rd.

We would also like to remind all of our Phantom Greeters to be on the lookout for visitors as we begin a new church year.  "What is a Phantom Greeter" you may ask....Well, you can find out in November, when the membership committee will host our popular "Phantom Greeter Luncheon".  Are you intrigued?   Be on the lookout for more details next month!

 — Laurie Wheeler

The UUMAN long range planning committee (LRPC)  (Chairperson Marty Harvey, Joe Creech, Margot Harding, Janet Lacey, Mike Liebergesell, and Laurey Sherman) is in the process of charting the future of our congregation and we need everyone’s help.  We are looking at future needs for: staff, finances, facilities and all other areas. 

Please be thinking about the UUMAN you envision and how it will impact your family and the areas of UUMAN which have your passion. 

 

Keep a watch for your opportunities to participate in the discussion. 

 

 Long Range Planning Committee

Now that everyone is getting back in their fall routine, we need to make a few changes to welcome a larger number of people on Sunday mornings.  Please arrive earlier, carpool and park as far back in the parking lot as you are able (watch for reconfiguration of the rear parking area).  In the Sanctuary, fill the seats opposite the door first.  Before & after service, keep a path open through the greeting room to the coffee area and restrooms.

 

 — Mike Liebergesell, for the LRPC

Dish Rinsing 101

Everyone has done such a good job helping the Cleaning Crew keep the UUMAN building clean lately. If you have been going into the kitchen lately, you have probably noticed how nice things have been looking, especially if you are just going in there on Sundays to put your coffee cup in the dishwasher rack. But if you are like some of us who are in and out two, three or even four days a week, you might have had time to look closer and noticed a few ants on the kitchen counter. If you follow those ants, they are attracted to the sugary coffee and juice drips that are under the racks.

Soon you will notice some new, nicely printed signs at UUMAN asking you to rinse your coffee cup or dish before you place them in the dishwasher rack. We have had some people wonder why we are asking members to do this because they are concerned about conserving water. We are glad you are being mindful about water consumption at UUMAN but there are a few things about our dishwasher you need to know.

 

Our dishwasher is an extremely efficient special commercial model that uses very little water. It actually recycles the water after each load, meaning we wash several loads with the same water. It reaches such a high temperature that the water is disinfected prior to each wash. So we conserve water each load that we run.

 

 At home you may be able to get away with putting an un-rinsed cup in your dishwasher because most people run their home dishwasher every day or two. At UUMAN we don’t run the dishwasher very often. On a slow week it can take the entire 7 days to fill up the rack. Only then do we run the dishwasher. That means that the sugary coffee or tea in the bottom of your cup sits there all week attracting ants and their friends to a little UUMAN picnic.

Now, none of us wants to waste water but sometimes you have to choose between two “evils”. Would you rather waste a little water rinsing your cup and keep the pests away, or conserve water and then have to use pesticides?

 

So the Sustainability Committee and the Common Grounds Committee have come up with a simple solution to this dilemma. Starting immediately, the Coffee Maker of the week will make a dishpan of water in the kitchen sink so that people can swish out their coffee cup before putting in the rack. If you are there during the week, use just a little water to get the juice or sugary drink out of the bottom of you cup. Dishes with food need to be scraped and rinsed. Sometimes it is just as easy and uses the same amount of water to just wash the dish, dry it and put it away. We’ll let you decide about that.

Look for the signs. Thanks again for caring for this wonderful community.

 

  Rosie Popp

The Sustainability Committee’s Tip of the Month

 

What is Triclosan??

      …and why should I care? 

Triclosan is a ubiquitous chemical found in many household products, cleaners and soaps.  The non-profit Beyond Pesticides has been mounting a crusade to inform the public of the dangers of Triclosan since 2004.  From their webpage:

“Triclosan, one of the most prevalent antibacterial compounds found in products, is the focus of a campaign undertaken by a coalition of health and environmental groups led by Beyond Pesticides and Food & Water Watch, aimed at removing triclosan from the market. Studies have increasingly linked triclosan (and its chemical cousin triclocarban), to a range of adverse health and environmental effects, from skin irritation, allergy susceptibility, bacterial, endocrine disruption and compounded antibiotic resistant, tainted water, and dioxin contamination to destruction of fragile aquatic ecosystems.

 “When introduced to the market in 1972, triclosan was confined to hospital and health care settings. Since then triclosan has exploded onto the market place in hundreds of consumer products ranging from antibacterial soaps, deodorants, toothpastes, cosmetics, fabrics, toys, and other household and personal care products. Triclosan’s impact on the consumer market has been aided by the false public perception that antibacterial products are best to protect and safeguard against potential harmful bacteria. However, an article in the journal Clinical Infectious Diseases, entitled "Consumer Antibacterial Soaps: Effective or Just Risky?" (2007), concludes that antibacterial soaps show no health benefits over plain soaps. This follows a recommendation by the FDA Nonprescription Drugs Advisory Committee on October 20, 2005 in a statement that antibacterial soaps and washes are no more effective than regular soap and water in fighting http://beyondpesticides.org/antibacterial/triclosan-small.jpginfections.

http://beyondpesticides.org/antibacterial/products.htm Research into triclosan’s health and environmental impacts is only just underway, despite its widespread consumer use. Studies have found that it persists in the environment, contributes to the increasing rates of bacterial resistance, has endocrine disrupting properties and causes adverse health problems in humans and wildlife species.

 “Triclosan Facts:

 Triclosan, used in hundreds of consumer products such as soaps, hand sanitizers, cosmetics, toys, plastics and textiles, is an antibacterial pesticide linked to numerous human health risks and environmental contamination. Studies have found triclosan in urine, breast milk and umbilical cord blood.  It is  also detected in large concentrations in surface waters and waste water treatment sludge as well as in fish and earth worms. Triclosan is also an endocrine disruptor, interfering with thyroid hormones, estrogen and androgen receptors, which can threaten the integrity of antibacterial and antibiotics in medical settings.”

 

 What can you do about Triclosan?

·         Avoid products that contain it

·         Share this knowledge with friends and co-workers

·         Encourage your local schools and business to use their buying power to go tricolsan-free.

·         Write a letter to your local store or retailer,

·         Support companies that do not use triclosan:

·         Sign the individual pledge to not use products containing triclosan

·         Join the campaign to ask manufacturers to stop using triclosan!”

 

 Learn more at: http://beyondpesticides.org/antibacterial/triclosan.htm  where you can find lists of companies and products that use Tricolsan and lists of those that don’t!

— Kate Hudson 

Sept 5 — Ingathering Water Service

This our intergenerational service where our children and youth take center stage, to celebrate our coming together at the beginning of a new church year. We invite our members and friends/visitors to bring water from around your town, or from wherever you might have traveled, to mingle in the common bowl of our shared humanity. Come, come, whoever you are.

Sept 12 — Begin Again

This season is a time of self-reflection and reevaluation of our lives. Ramadan is just past and Rosh Hashanah is upon us. It is a time for inner and global evaluation of our relations with all of humanity and this sustaining planet. It is not too late to change.

Sept 19 — Restore and Repair

We are all broken in some fundamental way, whether physically, emotionally or spiritually. Now is a time to celebrate our humanity, flawed as it is. Now is the moment of forgiveness for all that we have breached the bonds of human kindness and relationship, and to hereafter resolve to begin again to build a better life and world.

Sept  26 — Pain and Suffering (and Healing)   Lay-Led Service; Elizabeth Rohan – Guest Speaker

The complete September MCY Newsletter begins here! We are very pleased to include all the MCY news along with the UUMANTimes, both on-line and in print. We hope this will be a convenient way for you to find all the UUMAN-related September activities. There is also a link from the MCY web page directly to this section, which may be helpful when you're browsing the UUMAN web site for MCY information. — c.news

 

Welcome to UUMAN’s MCY. Welcome for the first time. Welcome back…

…welcome to the place where you will always find a friend waiting, to a place where what you say, what you think, what you feel and what you believe really matters! Welcome to a place where you will find a promise that you will be valued, loved, respected and supported and where we will expect the same from you in return. Welcome to a place where Love & Justice are tenets of our faith, a faith that firmly holds us to our promises to one another. Welcome to a place where we ‘snuggle and struggle’ with ourselves and each other as we grow together. Welcome to your Church home.

I hope that you have all had a wonderful summer and now I am so glad that YOU are here! We have some great RE Teams shaping up and a fantastic MCY Council who have already been busy making plans for a year full of wonderful experiences for us to create and share. I am excited about seeing everyone on Sunday mornings as we explore the many sources of our developing faith and live into our Unitarian Universalist Principles in beloved community with one another!

Welcome to all the new families who are joining us for the first time. We are looking forward to having you become a part of this ministry that we all care about so much. We want you to play an active role in your MCY at UUMAN and I know that your community will support your contributions and leadership in any way they can.

Your MCY Council and I hope that you will all join us at a special MCY sponsored Potluck on Friday September 10th as we celebrate the beginning of a new year of ministry together…

So, I invite you all to join me with arms, minds & hearts wide open as we look forward to being together again!

 

One Love, Toniann

 

 

MCY Calendar Highlights

Contact Toniann

SEPTEMBER 2010

Office Hours

Sept  5 – Ingathering

Sept 10 – MCY Potluck

Sept 11 – MCY Volunteer Training       

            (9:00am-1:00pm)

Sept 12 – RE Begins!

Sept 17-19 – Youth Retreat

Sept 26 – MCY Council Meeting

(12-2.30pm) DH

Tuesday 9:30am-3:30pm

Thursday 9:30am-3:30pm

Friday 9:30am-3:30pm

Sunday 9:30am-2:30pm

 

Office Telephone: (770) 992-3949

Email: dmcy@uuman.org

 

 

Your new MCY Council…

 

Kit & Anna Hamblen – Co-Chairs

OPEN (YOU?) – Vision Team Coordinator

Danielle Downs – Secretary

Kathy Hubbard – Curriculum Team Coordinator

Sara Kuhl – Social Action Coordinator

Margot Harding – Worship Coordinator

Suzy Rezelman - RE Associate Coordinator

Kara Sweeney - Family Ministry Team Coordinator

 

 The 6 Components of a Balanced MCY…

 

Worship!

Multigenerational!

Community Building!

Social Action!

Learning!

Leadership!

 

 

 Religious Exploration ‘Kick-Off’ Weekend!

Friday September 10th

 

Saturday September 11th

 

Sunday September 12th

Family Potluck

 

 

6:00-8:30 pm

Bring your family and a dish to share. You are invited to visit your RE Team rooms after supper

 

 

MCY Volunteer Training

 

Join your MCY Council and fellow volunteers for a morning of learning, fun and fellowship.

 

 

9:00 am-1:00 pm

Breakfast provided at 8.30 am

 

Childcare by request

 

Religious Exploration Begins!

 

Sessions begin for Preschool through 12th Grade.

 

Children and Youth begin in their rooms at 10:30 am

 

 

 

Young Religious Unitarian Universalists

Annual Fall Youth Retreat

 

CALVIN CENTER GLOBAL VILLAGE

‘RURAL VILLAGE EXPERIENCE’

www.calvincenter.org

SEPTEMBER 17-19th

Pack your bags…we’re off to ‘Haiti’!

 

We will spend the weekend together in a model Haitian village where we will experience first hand what it is like to live in another country, in conditions very different than our own. We will explore the world around us and the world between us, listen to inspiring missionary stories and come home with a changed perspective!           

Are you interested in creating intergenerational community?

Are you intrigued by the idea of Youth/Adult alliances?

Do you like playing games, deep conversation & worshipping at midnight (followed by breakfast at Waffle House)?

Are you over a UUMAN member over 25 years old?

We have a program waiting for YOU!

 

Application packets are available at the MCY Table on Sunday mornings

 

Fall Mountain & District Con Dates

MidSouth District YAC Meeting Saturday October 9th

Jr Youth Mountain Con — November 19-21

MidSouth District ‘CONfront’ November 19-21

Sr Youth Mountain Con December 3-5th

 

 — Articles submitted by  Toniann Read

 

The Inherent Worth and Dignity of Babies

 

 

You may have noticed a few changes in our UUMAN population recently.  They are evidenced by an abundance of infant car seats in the corners of Fellowship Hall, the odd cry or snuffling and lots of people crowding around couples who looked elated, yet a little bleary eyed, sporting some tiny bundles snuggled into baby-slings.  Yes, UUMAN is in the happy midst of a baby boom!

It’s been a while since UUMAN has had so many brand new babies as part of it’s community and for many of us it’s very exciting, if even a little daunting.  We are all very eager to embrace these new people and celebrate with their new parents, the joys and hopes that we tie up in the presence of new life.

 

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In our exuberance to engage with our new parents and babies, I think it’s a good opportunity to consider the relationships we want to form with these wonderful new beings.  Babies have a way of triggering many emotions from us adults and it’s easy to forget how things seem from an infant’s perspective.  This brand new world is pretty overwhelming when we first enter it.  As a loving community, we can be very deliberate and committed to a gentle and respectful approach to our babies (and young people, in general).  This will not only provide an opportunity to put into practice our religious intentions, but will serve us in forming trusting, genuine, loving relationship with our community’s children.

 

 

So with that in mind, I would like to offer some suggestions for building a healthy relationship with our babies:

 

Forming a relationship with a baby is not very different from engaging any new visitor at UUMAN.  Their verbal skills maybe lacking, but they are highly efficient communicators.  So, when first approaching a baby, be respectful of their space.  No one likes to be touched without permission, but a gentle touch is often welcome.  For example, rather than grabbing a baby’s hand or body, offer your finger and wait for the baby to reach out.  If they don’t reach back, don’t take it personally!  You may have been the fifteenth person to approach them that morning and they are just exhausted or they may just be feeling uncertain.  Smile and let them know everything is ok and how pleased you are to meet them.

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If the baby is happy to engage with you, enjoy talking to them and exchanging gestures.  If you’re interested in holding the baby, check in with the parent as to whether it’s a good time and watch to see how the baby feels about leaving the arms of the parent or caregiver.  If it seems to unsettle the baby, then soothe and reassure but be happy to return them to where they feel most comfortable.  Again, it’s not personal!  From the baby’s perspective, being held by a new person is often overwhelming and scary.  Sometimes only a parent will suffice to reassure their infant.  By helping our babies feel safe and respected, we will communicate to our children that when they are ready to explore in our community, they will be listened to and protected.

It’s understandable that the language of babies can seem elusive at times.  As a culture, little attention is paid to it and many myths about babies being less human than adults have pervaded our medical and social practices.  But do not fret! Help is at hand.  We have the most expert and comprehensive translators, right here with us - the parents!  A baby’s parent will be able to tell you what that gesture means, what that cry is about or what they need.  So trust their parents when they say, “oh, they don’t like that” or “she’s really sleepy right now” or “I think she’s had enough for today”.  They really do know their babies and again it’s not personal if they communicate that their baby is not available for social time.  They are just translating what their child is communicating for us.

On a final note, I want to encourage you to get to know our babies.  These words are not meant to discourage you from approaching our families or questioning whether you are welcome in their world.  Our babies are looking for interaction and connection.  They want a relationship with you!  Let’s show them what a loving and respectful community looks like, so they can become part of our community and share what they have to offer us.

May you enjoy many baby smiles. J

 

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— Kara Sweeney, MCY Council, Family Ministry

 

 

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